As one arranges the list of one’s idols, take note of the traits that begins to appear. What does it say about you? What kind of woman do you get from the conglomeration of all these other women’s personal quirks and attributes? What does she value? How does she present herself? What are her goals, and are these in fact your goals? And finally, how might you make these traits and goals manifest in your own life?
Kindly note, however, that even as you build off these women you must make sure to not become completely absorbed in actually pretending to be them wholesale. This is unproductive on two levels, the first being that you’re attempting to subsume and destroy your own personality in the name of becoming another person, which will not work unless you have some serious mental problems, and the second, related reason of that just being way too creepy, if you’ll pardon my vernacular. Remember, by identifying your goals through your idols you are seeking to understand yourself and give yourself a boost of both confidence and determination, not crawl into the skin of someone else.
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